Hidayat.Org » Marital Life http://www.hidayat.org/blog Spreading Goodness... Tue, 31 May 2011 09:58:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 en hourly 1 Sex Education – An Islamic Perspective http://www.hidayat.org/blog/2010/08/13/sex-education-an-islamic-perspective/ http://www.hidayat.org/blog/2010/08/13/sex-education-an-islamic-perspective/#comments Fri, 13 Aug 2010 00:04:46 +0000 admin http://www.hidayat.org/blog/?p=571
"If you tell kids about sex, they'll do it. If you tell them about VD, they'll go out and get it. Incredible as may seem, most oppositions to sex education in this country are based on the assumption that knowledge is harmful. But research in this area reveals that ignorance and unresolved curiosity, not knowledge, are harmful. Our failure to tell children what they want and need to know is one reason we have the highest rates of out-of-wedlock teens pregnancy and abortion of any highly developed country in the world...

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Question: Is it permissible for my husband to masturbate over me, without me actually touching him and swallow his sperm? Is it also permissible for my husband to place his erect penis between my breasts, to hold them and masturbate?

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Question: After returning from a long trip can a husband greet his wife by kissing her cheeks in front of his/her parents? Can husband and wife take a bath together? Can they have sex in bathroom?

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Question: Sometimes when I am in relation with my wife (that is during intercourse) we hear the call for prayer. Are we committing a sin if we continue our sex at the time of Azan? If so, is there any penalty for us?

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Question: Is it a sin for married couple to stay alone outside in nature, and to have a intimate contact, but to make sure no one from people sees them.

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Books of fiqh tend to be quite dry when it comes to bedroom behavior. What you usually find is in the form "everything is permissible, except for x, y, and z" instead of a detailed checklist of things to try if you wish. While the traditional approach of generality is fine as a teaching tool for students of knowledge who would be asked specific questions, it is less effective when laymen have no one to ask, when the only people available to ask mean well and know a bit more than the questioner but are laymen themselves, or when laymen go to the books directly.

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Question: My question is regarding Ghusl. Having oral sex with one's wife is allowed but is Ghusl Wajib? And if their having a skin contact (falling short of sexual intercourse) leads to secretion, do they need to make Ghusl, especially in the course of having oral sex? Thanks Name of Counselor: Ahmad Kutty

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Question: Respected scholars of Islam, As-Salamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatu Allah wa Barakatuh. I have a question that perplexes my mind, and I want you to clarify. What is the Islamic stance on oral sex between the husband and his wife? Jazakum Allah khayran.

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Everything of sexual activities between husband and wife relations are lawful except having intercourse during menstruation or nifas (after delivery of a baby, when the woman is still bleeding). Anal sex is unlawful as well. If you ask about oral sex, it has nothing to do with halal or haram, it is a matter of culture. Islamically, there is nothing haram in doing it.

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Fatwa on Oral Sex By Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid Praise be to Allah! It is permissible for the husband to enjoy/savor/relish his wife however he wishes, and to come to her in the genital area from any point he wishes. As Allah (Exalted is He) has said: “Your wives are a tillage for you [to cultivate] [nisa’u-kum harthun l-kum] so go to your tillage as you wish. [fa-’’tu hartha-kum anna shi’tum] Q 2:223

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Question: Is it allowed for a wife to stimulate the penis of her husband while he still sleeping? Once the penis becomes hard and fully erected she will start a foreplay and intercourse with him. One of our teachers in Islamic Studies said, a husband must be on top to respect the wife. Please send me a proof for the right of a wife regarding this matter?

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Question: Are husband and wife allowed to see each other completely nude in Islam? What sexual positions are best? Answer/Fatwa: Answered by: The Fatwa Center at IslamWeb All perfect praise be to Allah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allah, and that Muhammad (Peace be upon him) is His slave and Messenger.

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Question: Did Prophet (peace be upon him) never ever in his life looked on His (peace be upon him) private parts of his wives? This Hadith is narrated from Ayisha (Allah bless her) that he (peace be upon) never looked at my private parts and I never looked at his (peace be upon him) private parts? Why did he never do that? Was that for modesty and shyness? Is this Hadith true? Because there is also narrated a Hadith where Ayisha narrated that me and Prophet (peace be upon him) bathed together in a single pot of water? Was they not naked in front of each other on this event? Is that Haram for every Muslim husband and wife to look at each others private parts?

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The following article is a summary of the book "How to Make Your Husband Happy" by Sheikh Mohammed Abdelhaleem Hamed.

1. Beautiful Reception

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Prophet Muhammad (صلي الله عليه وسلم) said, “the best amongst you are the ones who are best to their wives.” So dear Muslim brother! Your obligations towards your wife are not limited to earning money and supporting her financially. A wife needs love from her husband, and emotional support too!

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